bookgeekconfessions:
I was asked to make a rebloggable version.

1. Be bold, vicious and detailed.
There are different kinds of abuse and they are all damaging to a person. In our current social climate it seems to me that authors and readers have no idea what an abusive…
I’m really incredibly grateful for this post. I’m glad to see someone shining a light on abusive relationships in writing and literature. As a former member of Young Adults Against Dating Abuse in high school, the glorified, glossed over abusive relationships in novels really disturbs me. What disturbs me more is how easy it is to fall into the trap of finding these relationships romantic - I know from experience in reading novels. But having been trained in domestic abuse prevention and aid, spoken with domestic abuse victims and helped friends out of abusive relationships I must emphasize what the writer says here:
“It is scary as hell out there and if you are going to write this kind of relationship you have to go for it 100%. You can not dilute or gloss over how horrible it is. You have to make it very clear that this is not romantic, it is not sweet, it is abusive and this kind of guy may love you forever, but he will probably also destroy you in the mean time.”